A self

Sometimes we are proud of becoming someone's friend and relative,
However,... Does that really define us as a self ?
If we posses a good position in our job,
can it really belong to us, or just a temporary allowance ?
Why can we be proud of whathever we are,
with all the things that come from within our hearts,
just be sincere and honest to ourselves ?
Will those be good enough for us to love ourselves...