The key is a good communication

I just read Lie Chung Yen's writing that has a deep reflection about the meaning of a holy matrimony. He mentioned, in term of creation of God, woman inherits the feminity side of HaShem (called Ruah), while man inherits the masculinity of Him (called Logos). If woman tends to go to the future, man cares more about the past. Therefore, man doesn't really like changes and feels anxious about the future. Man falls deeply when he has to face failures, because he often looks back at his success in the past. On the other hand, woman goes after the future. Women always moves further, embraces changes, and can not stand still. Woman doesn't give up easily in sufferings and failures. In the holy matrimony, man and woman become one and then this union delivers a new dimension, the present. These three dimensions (past, future, and present) then gather in the new dimension that conquers all of the three dimensions. And the new dimension is called 'eternity'. I guess this theory explains why man and woman often trap in an argument and a misunderstanding about what they want to achieve and accomplish. And in my opinion, the only solution for this matter is to compromise and also communicate their thoughts to each other. Seriously,... Please, communicate... A LOT !